In a series of events I’d term happy happenstance, I found out that Dr. Brene Brown was coming to speak in Edmonton.
I have been following Brene Brown’s blog and Twitter feed for some time now. The adolescent girl in me will confess that I am a HUGE FAN. Brene is lovely, she’s cool, she’s my age, she’s living life in Houston as a writer, speaker and researcher. I’ve seen her speak at TedTalks, and own a dog-eared copy of her book, The Gifts of Imperfection.
Even though I am not a social worker, the kind folks at the Alberta College of Social Workers connected me up with a fellow who couldn’t use his ticket, so I snagged a deal to see Brene Brown speak at their provincial conference on Friday March 23 at the Convention Centre. I met up with a social work friend in the conference hotel for breakfast, and even saw Brene Brown eat her breakfast at a table behind me. I was so paralyzed with excitement to see her in person that I only could give her a small smile and wave. (I am such a dork. But a polite Canadian dork).
She opened the conference as the plenary speaker, and then gave a three hour workshop. I sat wide-eyed through both sessions, and have taken a few days to process what she said about vulnerability, shame and love. It was extremely powerful for me to see her speak.
I listened hard and scribbled down statements that spoke to me. Her presentation style is warm and engaging, and she opened her remarks with humour about the ‘sideways’ snowstorm that greeted her arrival in Edmonton. Her PowerPoint slides were just my style – all photos and quotes, and she began with a powerful one:
What is to give light must endure the burning ~ Frankel
So many snippets are floating through my head, but you must see Dr. Brown speak yourself to get the full context for her words. A few morsels:
We must have love and belonging, or there’s suffering.
You cannot give what you do not have.
I am enough.
There’s a difference between merely professing love and practicing love.
I was especially taken with her wisdom about storytelling, as I’m working on an hour long storytelling presentation for a conference in May. She explained our worthiness lives inside the story of who we are, and that we must own our own stories and love ourselves through the process. And, courage is telling our stories with our whole hearts.
I was moved and inspired by the whole experience. I’m especially proud of myself for having the guts to phone the ACSW office, and ask (beg) for tickets to the event. Thank you to Lin Hermanson for the heads up, Lori Sigurdson for extending out kindness to me, and to Brene Brown for braving the sideways snow in Edmonton to share your wisdom and yourself with your friends in Canada.
Check out the real Brene Brown here:
http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_listening_to_shame.html